Life is such a facade. 

It is only a reflection of what's inside of you. 

When you change what's inside of you, you change your life. 

Life will come as a result of you developing you. 

You have to become who you really are, 

then everything else will fall into place.

Seek out that mental attribute which makes you

 feel most deeply and vitally alive.

 And when you find that inner voice which says,

"This is the real me," follow it.